What Being ‘Spiritual’ Means to Me
For as long as I can remember, there’s been a quiet knowing inside me—a steady whisper that I’m meant for something more. Even when life felt flat or unfulfilling, I was desparate to Unlock Success and Purpose as I couldn’t shake the sense that I was capable of something bigger. I have always had a strong sense that I’d be okay, even if I didn’t know how.
This feeling led me down a path of curiosity, sparking my fascination with ancient wisdom and teachings. I genuinely love exploring how humans have made sense of life, meaning, and purpose for thousands of years. Over time, I pieced together what felt true for me—not what I was told to believe or what was trending, but what resonated deeply within.
I consider myself spiritual, but perhaps not in the way often portrayed on social media. For me, spirituality is about believing in something greater than ourselves. It encompasses the understanding that we are all interconnected, that there is a purpose behind our existence, and that something transcends this life. Each of us matters, and everything we do holds significance.
We are composed of the same energy, vibrating at different frequencies based on our thoughts and emotions, and we do have control over this. This energy influences those around us, creating a ripple effect. I believe this is part of a deeper intelligence or consciousness that we may never fully comprehend, yet I know with certainty that it exists.
However, I do not worship anything. I don’t think we need a priest or a ‘chosen one’ to access what is inherently ours. I indulge in junk food, enjoy horror movies, and have a dark sense of humor that some might find questionable. While I don’t feel any power from crystals, I have occasionally burned sage in my home. Most days, I’m not floating in a state of peace and enlightenment; I’m simply trying to be a decent human being.
To me, being spiritual is about being conscious—paying attention to how I move through the world and being aware of my thoughts and actions. It’s about trying to be kind, wanting to grow, and holding the belief that my life—my presence—matters. It’s not about perfection; it’s about accepting my flaws, owning my mess, and trusting that I’m still becoming the person I’m meant to be.
The Dark Side of Spirituality
I’ve been burned by the spiritual scene too. At one point, I thought I was doing it all wrong because I couldn’t manifest overnight miracles. The advice I took didn’t resonate and often caused more harm than good. Many in those circles made others feel less than, suggesting that if you’re not “high vibe” all the time, you’re doing something wrong. It’s damaging and unhelpful.
Now that spirituality has become trendy, it’s great that millions are engaged, but the message often gets confused. This trend can leave people feeling even more lost and unworthy, as if spirituality is reserved for those who meditate for five hours a day. Instead of fostering genuine connection, it can create an environment of judgment, where every misstep feels scrutinized. True spirituality should be about acceptance and understanding; if you’re feeling judged, that’s not spiritual. It’s important to remember that everyone’s journey is unique, and authenticity matters more than fitting into a trend.
The Most Powerful Lesson I’ve Learned
What spirituality has taught me more than anything is that I don’t need to look outside myself for power, strength, or truth. Yes, we all need support and guidance sometimes, but real change comes from realizing that you are what you have been looking for. You are powerful and magical, and no one can take that away from you.
No one is coming to save us, and that’s not scary—it’s empowering. When you realize the strength, wisdom, and clarity you’ve been seeking are already inside you, that’s when things really start to get good.
How Does This Work?
Although I have always trusted my journey and believed I would be okay, I have struggled with feeling a sense of greatness and creating a path without pain and struggle. It’s easy to say that all the power lies within us and that we need nothing external, but believing it and truly living it are two different things.
We often grapple with conflicting thoughts, like “I know I can achieve great things,” which can easily be overshadowed by fear and self-doubt manifesting as “You’ll embarrass yourself” or “Who do you think you are to pursue this?” In these moments, fear takes the lead. Thus, it’s crucial to acknowledge these conflicting thoughts and find ways to navigate through them.
The methods for overcoming these challenges vary for each individual and can change throughout different phases of life. Personally, I spent years exploring various approaches, and some of the most effective ones are now available on Kolleqtive. Techniques like hypnotherapy, subliminal meditations, and visualization have been invaluable for overriding negative thoughts, reducing stress, and enhancing focus.
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Spirituality today can feel like a noisy maze—so many self-proclaimed “healers,” endless social media advice, and conflicting messages everywhere. It’s overwhelming, and honestly, confusing as hell. That’s why I’m launching this series: to cut through the clutter and demystify what modern spirituality really means. Ancient wisdom about the human experience isn’t just for the “enlightened” elite—it’s a practical, intelligent toolkit for anyone willing to understand and integrate it in their daily life. No hype. Just real talk that works.
